Everyone falls ill at some point. Some suffer from chronic sickness, and older people tend to experience more illnesses, aches, and pains. These ailments are not always physical—some may face mental or psychological challenges, which can be either temporary or chronic.

Whatever the illness, no one can manage without support. And the best support comes from family. For example, I move freely around my house only when everything is in its proper place. A small misplaced item might cause me to grope for it or, worse, stumble. Imagine the danger—it could lead to further complications. Family support means adjusting to the needs of the person who is ill, even if it means changing one's own lifestyle. It requires effort, care, and sometimes even sacrifice. 

Some people, particularly those with depression, need regular conversations and companionship. Leaving them alone, using the excuse of being too busy, is a pity. It’s important not just to understand the illness but to sympathize and empathize with the person suffering. Imagine, just for a second, “What if I were in their position?” It’s not the time to avoid them, but to engage with them.

This is especially true for those with mental or psychological illnesses. It can be hard for others to relate to them. They may do things that seem silly, but can we truly understand what’s going on in their minds? More understanding, and discussions with doctors, are needed to grasp how to keep them in balance. If something irritates them, even if it seems illogical, why not avoid it? After all, they are our family. Even if they weren’t, shouldn’t we offer compassion as fellow human beings?

My mother was bedridden for over six months. Physical illnesses often have psychological effects too. Caring for her wasn’t easy. I experienced something similar when I was stuck in bed for nearly three months. An idle mind, with nothing to think about but illness, fear, anxiety, pain, and inactivity—you can imagine the plight.

Family support may not cure illness, but it certainly helps alleviate physical and psychological pains.

Cheers.

Contd. 388. Near is Far