While working at the Bank, I had an opportunity to visit an old age home run by a Christian charitable institution. Frankly, I was moved by two things—the emotional state of the residents living without family and the care and dedication shown by those running the facility. 

Whenever I think of old age homes, it sends shivers down my spine. Imagine being placed in one, even if it’s well-run and paid for. The atmosphere is bound to reflect the realities of aging—illness, chronic conditions, and more frequent deaths. Each passing stirs up a lingering fear: When will it be my turn? And how? The repetitive faces, the same aches, loneliness, anxiety, and the heavy sense of rejection from one’s own family could make life seem unbearable. 

Yes, modern retirement communities have emerged with excellent facilities—food, healthcare, transport, and private spaces. For elderly individuals with no one to care for them, these may provide a suitable solution. 

But what about those who still have family around? 

What do elderly people really need? Just a bowl full of rice and a bucket full of love. Is that too much to ask? Can’t families provide these basic things? Sure, the elderly might occasionally give unsolicited advice or interfere—based on their life experiences. But isn’t it worth tolerating? Don't we do the same with our children? Listen patiently, and if their advice holds value, follow it. If not, let it go. If we can’t be patient with our own elders, whom can we tolerate? 

Life moves fast. Before we know it, we too will join the ranks of the elderly. 

I’m heartened to see that many children, even those living abroad, take great care of their parents—providing the best homes, financial support, and unbounded love. They visit when needed, showing they haven’t shied away from responsibility, despite modern pressures. May this continue across all families, rich or not. 

In the end, all anyone really needs is a bowl of rice and a bucket of love. 

Contd. 393. Fresh Roses